Important People: Rosey Grier

“I was about to meet a star. Not exactly one of my idols, but a man who’d figured largely in my rather limited cultural development. But he was frightening. It had nothing to do with the fact that I was white and rarely saw black people. That wasn’t it. It was the fact that he was a giant.”

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Proverbs from the Cold: 1974

“Back then flying was still sort of a big deal. You dressed up a little. I remember that I wore my one dressy outfit, a ghastly ensemble of dusty rose polyester pants and a floral shirt with similar mauve overtones. I thought I looked really good in it.”

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Proverbs from the Cold: 1987

“It was the day of the fall/winter session’s final exam. In the wee hours a blizzard had kicked into high gear, crippling the entire city by rush hour. The snow was already approaching knee height. City services struggled to plow the streets. Subway service was spotty. Still, I was determined to take that final.”

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Proverbs from the Cold: 2010

“I sat inside on the couch, in a house without power. All I could do was sit, listen and wait. Waiting for our branches to fall, which many of them did over the course of the day, became almost meditative, and the inevitability of each new piece of damage almost gratifying.”

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Condolence Cards

“I felt as if those cards were telling me what to feel. My present state of mind didn’t include concepts like ‘memories’ or ‘legacy.’ If the cards had mentioned ‘bewilderment’ or ‘numbness’ or ‘exhaustion’ I’d have felt the writers had some idea of what this was all about.”

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